i think people think too much about responses they get because they get a lot of them this seems to be the only way to narrow it down. this is pretty much all they have to go on before meeting a person.

well the world of online dating is risky cause your putting yourself out there to view people that you have not met in person, so there just a desperate as you are to a certain extent you just have too view the people carefully if online dating is what your doing and take that chance.